None of us grow up being formally taught who and what we actually are as unique spirits trying to walk out a human life.
I was introduced to a method of stripping away all the baggage that gets overlayed over our original indigenous – authentic personalities as it exist right now under a lifetime of garbage acquired along the way to right this moment.
If you come from or have been exposed a multi kid family you already see that every one seems to perceive, express and cope differently based on some kind of innate or born with inner software or more accurately unique genetic tendency to be their own truly unique self.
Along the path to breaking a childs original and unique spirit, our supposed civilization tries to reprogram, suppress, beat, threaten, guilt, shame, punish out of us our original creative, question everything, laugh for no reason, live in the moment, love every one spirit.
I’ve got news for you…. That original YOU is not gone! Was not destroyed! Was never Colonized or Tamed! It’s just been covered over by piles of other peoples “Dirty Laundry” dumped on your unique and cozy bed!
Many years ago I intentionally began a quest to “decolonize” myself as I realized I did not fit what anyone expected of me and had no innate volition to even seek to comply or find emotional energy in the idea of such.
This told me that even though I’d fought to not swallow any of the BS society and those that influenced my upbringing in suppressive, non-empathic ways, I realized something had gotten in me and all over me that I couldn’t see in the mirror on the wall or even self reflectively.
I took what I thought were deep dives into many self development programs and forms of self exploration and analysis. I did manage to identify a lot of dysfunctional shadow like programs, beliefs, memories and triggered events that I was fortunate to also get to defuse or disable using various techniques.
All the above was very healing but it left me still unable to clearly see just what and who I am as personage….
Then a hand full of years ago I was exposed to a kind of online testing called a Meyers – Briggs Type Indicator test.
What I found really fascinating was its premise that the type of questions it would ask me to answer were on purpose designed to peel way or bypass all my biases and any remnants of “baggage” that might “color my views” about myself and present me with a very accurate and detailed description of myself as it I was able to extract out of my body my own spirit without this lifetimes scars and look at it as it has always been. Pure, pristine, unique, creative, empathic, perceptive, silent, visionary, and filled with love and very deep feelings.
My aim with this page is to help you come to love and appreciate the REAL YOU as deeply as you have deserved all your life.
Once you truly know the real you deeply, no one can use any belief, behavior, history, or any other projection against you because you will in your soul know the feeling of what they are doing is not about you and is just a distractive projection for them.
Once we know our own unique beauty and inner super powers, it’s also natural to feel appropriate and easy to set up proper boundaries that keep out those who bring vibe lowering projections your way and for us to “Level Up” and bring, invite and support those who are truly a complement or match to what and who we are as Spiritual Beings Having a Human Experience.
One more caveat before I send you to the sites below: Once you open each of the sites below find the area near or at the top of the front page to create your own User Name and Password so the site will save not just the results of your test for future referencing but how it arrived at your results.
Everyone will be amazed at what they learn about themselves in this first exposure and experience however I promise you that the information your realize or see with your “Real Eyez” or Inner Eye – hint hint – Spirit is over time going to automatically in the background of your daily life continue to “Decolonize Your Mind” and you’ll come back and look, reread your results in the months and years ahead and watch holographically alive new information jump out of the exact same information you will look at today and wonder “How is this possible?”
Think of a budding rose…. Only the innate intelligence at the center of that rose knows which petal should open in which sequence and over what period of time, and which rain storms and which sunny days to make it it’s own unique perfect rose amongst a rose bush or even garden of perfect roses.
Think of what you’re about to learn as that “Innate Intelligence” that’s been guiding your unfoldment since perhaps before you were conceived… and will be with you one day when you transition from being done with being a human rose!
OK, now go exploring… and one more thing… These test are free. The sites will offer you the opportunity either before or after you take them to invest about $20 to get an even deeper dive or more elaborate break out of your personality type test. I initially got the free version but being the ever curious spirit that I am, I did come back and get the upgraded version (which is another reason you want the sites to save your initial results so you don’t have take the test again so the system can generate your super deep dive version – and it will save those results too!
OK, again go have fun and do come back and use the Contact Me box on this blog to share your outcome. We INFP’s treasure getting to know “The Real You” as much you will.
Authenticity and Indigeneity is where healthy and respectful friendships grow.
One more useful tip: Once you’ve taken the test and its given you your “Type” as a 4 letter acronym like mine which is INFP, take your’s and # tag it EX: #INFP and search all your social networks for it. Also use the search windows of each social network and just search without the # tag. It was in doing this that I began to realize that even though only about 2% of the males that have ever taken these test show up as INFP’s that I was not the only one! That there were lots of others all over this beautiful planet that had the same or similar preferences, values, communication style, creative expressions, perceptual abilities and all the other uniquely beautiful and amazing qualities my personality type naturally is. I found this very helpful in solidifying my desire to let go of all that was not apart of my original – indigenous personality. Super Healing!
Here’s a link for 16Personalities.com test:
Here is a link to my outcome as an INFP:
Here’s another of my favorite test sites:
And my INFP profile according to them:
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