None of us grow up being formally educated as to how we work internally be it physically , mentally or emotionally.
Few will stumble into things like Tony Robbins NLP or Neurolinguistic Programming or some other doorway into how our perceptions work and effect us and how to change them for specific purposes.
I came down those roads decades ago but it wasn't until I was introduced to what's called a Meyers - Briggs Type Indicator test or tool that I had the most profound awakening to why I was soooooo different from most every male I'd ever encountered.
My first encounter with this type of Self Discovery tool was via this site which produced this map of the "Inner Me" - I was "Mind Blown!" at the accuracy and insights to just how I am wired to function.
Here's a link if you want to take the test: https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
Here is a link to my outcome as an INFP https://www.16personalities.com/infp-personality
Here's another of my favorite test sites: https://www.truity.com
And my INFP profile according to them: https://www.truity.com/personality-type/INFP
If you take the test, feel free to share the 4 letter outcome with me along with your name via the Contact Me form. Knowing each other in such an authentic way can only increase our likelihoods of us developing a deeper connection in our conversations and perhaps meetups somewhere out there in this big beautiful world.